My name is Deborah Watts, and just a few years ago I was where you are right now. Although the above quotes were from men and women I’ve interviewed over the past year or so, they all were things I said at different points in time in my own personal relationship struggles.
You see, I learned from painful personal experience that there aren’t many “acceptable” solutions for those men and women who want their relationship to work when their partner is checked out.
There’s no option to restore it to its original grandeur or – heaven forbid! – BETTER.
So, a few years ago, in my usual manner, I said “Screw what’s ‘acceptable’, what actually WORKS?” and then set out on a mission to find just that.
Fast forward to today, and I’m proud to share that virtually all of my clients feel happier, much more clear and more successful in their lives after working with me. Most of them have increased their income and are making bold career changes after freeing up mental bandwidth previously consumed by relationship worries.
Not all of them are still in the relationship they came to me about, but, oddly enough, in ALL cases their relationship with that person dramatically improved!
So you see, it doesn’t matter if you’re:
Oh YES, consistent effort is needed. No magic pills in this shop.
BUT the effort you put in has a REE-diculous ROI and is WAY more fun than counseling. Trust me.
What would you do with that freedom? That joy? That confidence?
Who else could you touch?
How different would you show up as a parent, sibling, boss, mentor, etc?
You CAN have your relationship the way you want it, even if your partner doesn’t want to continue the relationship in its current form.
Feeling relaxed, free and always expanding, all the while still deeply connected with your partner and enjoying unprecedented intimacy in all areas.
The R.E.A.L. Tribe is an online community and learning space designed to support your movement through the stages of progress to healthy and happy relationships – first with your partner, and then with others.
By continuous participation in the community, you will be able to…
In her first post in that group, she described her relationship with her fiancé as being at “breaking point.” She continued: “I believe that my fiancé is a narcissist without having any knowledge of it and I believe that I am an empath who also has major anxiety disorder. I’m trying to find a way that we can be happy together a way to save our family.” She joined the group for this reason.
The problem Andie described was one I see complaints about often: Narcissist and empath combination. Little did she know how different the solution would be to what she’d heard elsewhere.
When she began participating in the group, she couldn’t even list things she liked about herself. It took some encouragement and continuous effort on her part to begin to see things she liked in herself and own them.
Some of the strategies she’d tried: apologize, reassure him of her love, even giving him attention at the expense of giving needed attention to herself and her children.
None of it was working. Her life felt dismal.
Why the problem could never be solved: She was trying to “work on” the relationship while ignoring her own needs, and thus was trying to give from an empty cup. The result was exhaustion and sadness.
When she joined the group and began participating by watching the live videos, answering the questions and doing the prescribed exercises, we formed a partnership, reinforced by the community. Over the year she came to realize how simple and pleasant it was to stop exhausting herself, and how much power she had over her entire experience of life.
Results? She began naturally making personal and career decisions from a place of deeper joy, confidence and freedom than ever before. Over the course of the year, she carved out time to take care of herself each day and to really enjoy being present with her kids no matter what. She even changed jobs to pursue her dream on a completely different career path!
Her man noticed the changes and had no choice but to make changes of his own. He then realized that what they had was valuable enough to make changes to keep, and both of them have benefited in every way from Andie’s using the resources in the group to elevate her life.
She recently said about how the group impacted her: “You truly have helped me to see the mindset. I have made so many major changes in every relationship in my life. Specially the one I have with myself and my daughter… [My man] and I are so much better. He has made so many positive changes!”
* Name and image have been changed to protect privacy.
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In addition to the monthly free masterclasses available to the entire honeyBee You! community, R.E.A.L. Tribe members enjoy exclusive monthly live trainings on topics of your choice: 20 minute class with assignments to complete and share in the group as you wish for accountability.
Ask me anything: I respond live to your biggest questions – I keep going until they’re all answered.
Learn from the best in the worlds of business, personal development, family relationships, health & fitness, and more! Ask them anything – each interview followed with a valuable live Q&A session.
They are rare and never last long, and this community is the only place I will be offering valuable bonuses to help you get your relationship on track in record time!
Selectively chosen to address the top challenges of fatigue and disillusionment that are common to the process of relationship transformation. We know because we’ve been there, and the content posted is to get you back on track and focused on victory when things at home feel overwhelming.
All content is based on Units 1-4 of the Authenticity Tapping System
The Authenticity Tapping System is the method we use to get results. Through it we access our own internal power to be able to move confidently through life’s challenges and only magnetize the best in people and experiences. In the Tribe, the focus is always on YOU.
Gain crystal clarity in knowing exactly what you want and who you become on the way there so you know when you’ve won (P.S: You’re ALWAYS winning this way).
Learn how to naturally ooze confidence & remove self-sabotage on your way to your Vision while designing your life so you enjoy feeling back in your power every day
Learn how you create any emotion (like anger and distrust) and how to reshape your experience of life each day.
Learn how to erase pain from the past & replace it with peace while at the same time learning what your partner REALLY wants.
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Exclusive monthly live trainings on topics of your choice: 20 minute class with assignments to complete and share in the group as you wish for accountability.
Get your biggest questions answered in real time for monthly live Q&As.
Monthly live learning opportunities followed by valuable Q&As on numerous topics related to your health, relationships career and spiritual mission.
Quick responses to your questions in the group and content customized to frequently mentioned concerns.
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The tribe is for you if you’re:
Our only rule is NO situations involving physical violence. If you and everyone in your home are physically safe and one of the above applies to you, we are confident that Tribe membership will work for you because the approach is based on timeless universal principles, not on current popular trends.
Not precisely. This is an environment where learning happens through classes, interviews, Q&As and bulletin posts. It is also a support group where you can connect with others who are focused on achieving higher levels of purposeful living.
This is a support and educational community made up of independent individuals. No one in the community is here as a marriage counselor or therapist. If you want to go to marriage counseling, by all means, do so, as this is not a substitute for counseling, therapy, or any other related service.
The short answer is, instead of requiring the willing participation of both individuals, which is the traditional approach, authenticity tapping helps you understand, accept and connect with yourself better, so that you can in turn understand, accept and connect with your partner better. Simple.
FAR less than the alternatives of endless Google searches, complaining to inexperienced or unhelpful friends or relatives, engaging in destructive arguments or in the subsequent distractions or mind-numbing to avoid reality!
In the same time it takes you to get an update on the news, check out your friends’ posts or watch HALF an episode of your favorite show on Netflix, you could have REAL answers to your burning questions to make your relationships and life the way you want them to be!
OUR primary objective is always TRANSformation, we have chosen to make this community as supportive of your growth and development as possible. Scheduling and creating customized trainings, bulletin posts and expert interviews, as well as promptly responding to your individual questions takes a considerable amount of time, attention and care. Membership fees collected are used for these purposes to ensure that you enjoy the highest quality experience.
Of course, we know you have a choice from MANY free communities and resources. Previously, we facilitated multiple free communities. By all means, if to you that weekly pint of ice cream or that beer at Happy Hour is a better use of your money, please, go for it! NO judgment here. We suggest you stick with your choice of free groups if you are simply seeking more INformation to consume at your leisure.
We know there’s a lot of noise and unhelpful advice out there, so we have done everything we can to make membership attainable for ALL who are SERIOUS about relationship transformation, regardless of their financial situation.
There will be no refunds. Due to the incredibly high value of the content being provided at such a low price point, we cannot offer refunds for membership.
You can cancel at any time. There are no obligations. You will not be refunded, but you will incur no future charges.